It has nothing to do how much you go to church, its not about thinking about God directly every hour of the day, its about having the spirit of the Lord in you and being submitted to the Lords guidance in your day. This manifest in the way you respond to challenges. If you have the spirit of the Lord in you, your more apt to think and respond this way..
Philippians 4:8
“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”
This is more in line with being decicated to God, its how you live overall, the way you think. It is to be tolerant, forgiving and helpful in your walk. The more these aspects become part of your personality, the more everything else will take care of itself.
If your doing all that you have stated, your doing more than most already, I think you should relax in your concern and receive the perspective, its about your heart and that will drive your deeds which is the evidence of your faith.
Galatians 5:22-23
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.